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06 November 2013 @ 09:30 am
I have sole custody of my two children. There father is allowed visitation time. Our custody papers have a set time each week but we compromise and sometimes it just depends on both our schedules. He has never had the kids overnight before. Now that they are a little older, he has asked to have them overnight. Our custody agreement, that was put in place 4 years ago, says he has them 3 hours a week. I want to compromise with him and get along for our children because I believe they should have a relationship with there father; however, I don't want to do anything I'm not supposed to do based off our paperwork. Is it illegal for me to let him take them on an overnight visit? If he took me back to court for more time in the future, could he get it based off of this decision?

Also, I ran the idea of the overnight thing past my children because I wanted to see how they reacted and they both said no way. Do they kids have any say in this decision? They've never been away from home overnight before and I don't want to force them to stay at their dad's house if they aren't comfortable. With that being said, I also don't want to cause waves or rock the boat with my ex either as I like to avoid confrontation because of the kids.
03 November 2012 @ 08:23 pm
I'm in NE.

Me and my ex divorce 4 years ago. I received sole custody of both of our children. The judge had originally ordered my ex to pay $690.00 in child support per month. However, I was terrified of my ex at the time and told the judge I only wanted $400.00. He granted this. About two months ago I received a letter in the mail saying that it was time to reevaluate our child support and if I wanted to re-open the case and see if he has gotten raises (which he has). I didn't do anything about it because I am still afraid of him at times. However, it would be really beneficial for the kids to have more child support, especially now that they are getting older and are in more activities. My question is, would the case still be open for evaluation or is there a certain time period every few years where you can request a raise in child support?
08 November 2011 @ 01:35 pm
I have fallen in love with a new name. MAGNOLIA. I love it. I don't know why but I heard it on a tv show and if I ever have another daughter I would use it. There are a lot of possible nicknames. I have a three year old daughter named Molly so I think the "M" trend fits. The only problem is that I can't find a middle name I like. Any suggestions?
18 September 2009 @ 02:49 pm
If a magic genie told you your calories wouldn't count for 24 hours, would it change what and how much you ate that day?
I would eat everything I could. Lots of ice cream and fast food for sure!
12 August 2009 @ 02:25 pm
Do you believe everything has a scientific explanation?
07 August 2009 @ 03:38 pm
RIP John Hughes. In honor of the master of the teen movie, what is your favorite teen flick?
Breakfast Club. Hands down. 
25 April 2009 @ 04:56 pm
deception is something that I have been doing and have not even realized it. 
is it a sin to want the best? is it a sin to insinuate what someone else wants to hear just because you know if you do, the ones you love will be protected and life will be easier? Does protecting the ones I love make me evil? Inner turmoil I guess.